Saturday, October 8, 2011

100 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT EMMAN



  1. Not Choosy but Very picky after breaking up, he will be double careful when choosing a new partner next time.
  2. He loves singing and a frustrated singer and dancer.
  3. A registered Architect and a registered Master Plumber.
  4. 5’ 8” in height.
  5. A good friends and he will do anything to make his friends happy.
  6. When you're with him, there are no dull moments, he always laughs and makes some stories about anything.
  7. He knows something about anything
  8. A passionate person.
  9. Don’t like complicated things, but when it’s needed to done, he will do anything to overcome it.
  10. A family oriented person and God fearing person
  11. When Horny.lol..He will simply drop his pants and say "It's time:)))
  12. Is very confident and secure in himself.
  13. Have a tremendous but hidden sex drive.
  14. Investigate everything.
  15. Just need to be told, "I love you"....to make everything better.
  16. Sincere friends until you cross him, then he can be your worse enemy.
  17. Have to share secrets with someone else worth gossiping.
  18. Like to be comforted.
  19. Will analyze your hair, your dress, the way you speak. Don't even get him started on your poor sex game..
  20. When you think something, he already knew it, just be careful of your gesture, sayings and actions.
  21. Impatient.
  22. Will silently know everything about you...and try to guide you with his naturally gentle personalities.
  23. Don't fall easily, but when he do, it's something real.
  24. Mostly shy.
  25. Kind and cool, but if irritated with rudeness or stupidity then he will show you they are annoyed.
  26. Worries himself sick.
  27. Plan out the clothes he will wear tomorrow before going on bed.
  28. People may think he is selfish, because when he say "No", he really mean it.
  29. Analyzes everything.
  30. Gossiping on the phone before bed.
  31. He will go to great lengths to help those he love.
  32. Afraid of failure. If he think he will fail, he won’t even try. But he love challenges.so if he think he can, he will do it.
  33. Well groomed. He will iron his underwear & sheets.
  34. Wants love that comes with quality, not quantity. Due to this, he has only a few lovers.
  35. In relationships, he push people away because he don't want to have his hearts broken; but this is why he is still single!
  36. Find it difficult to trust & as a result, have few friends.
  37. Talented in whatever he do but if he don't love it, he won’t do it.
  38. Likes a sincere self confident partner, neat and clean, perfect and tidy.
  39. Nice people but if you get on his shit list, you might as well be invisible because he can also be very cold & calculating.
  40. Great at analyzing. He already figured you out in the first 10 minutes of meeting.
  41. Have a keen sense of taste & smell which makes him good cooks & lovers of food.
  42. He think himself a good leader, when you’re looking for a team leader, he is the best man.
  43. He believes in everything, about love, faith, respect, and loyalty, and most of all he have a good sexual appetite..lol
  44. A loner, he chooses to be alone, seated on his bed while reading books, or watching movies.
  45. He don’t want enemy, when he knows that someone is not good at him, he approach that person and directly address what he needs to know.
  46. Outspoken person, so he is misinterpret by others, but not by his friends. He love by his friends.
  47. Easily to be upset, mostly when he watch movies, you will see him crying, laughing, and shock on what he sees.
  48. He like helping others, and maybe when he has a million on his pocket, half of it would be in charity.
  49. Believes that having a good job is very important part of life.
  50. Modest, Shy & Romantic.
  51. Likes argument because he want to show his ability and bright mind.
  52. May forgive but will never forget what happened.
  53. Can very quickly weight information and make Yes or No decisions on it in a blink of an eye while the rest of us mull.
  54. Loves to travel
  55. A God fearing person, so every Sunday you may see him on church, kneel and solemnly pray.
  56. He will do everything for his family.
  57. Love to speak in front of people, he wants to motivate, to lecture, to teach someone else about life.
  58. A good speaker.
  59. His hot spots are neck, belly, feet, and ear loaves.
  60. He always fight and not surrender.
  61. He's the one to go to if you need someone to talk to.
  62. have a rigid outlook in life.
  63. always want his family proud.
  64. He is naturally stubborn. But eventually swallow his pride given gentle persuasion.
  65. He loves music. Any Genre
  66. A certified mamas boy, so if you want to know his secret, call his mom:))
  67. He always wants the happiness of his friends, but if he observe that something is wrong he will immediately approach you and stop you from what your doing.
  68. Don't want to see a lady crying, he will frankly ask you "what's happening?. Who the hell did this to you?"
  69. Gets irritated by stupidity
  70. he only looks like innocent but under that guise is a passionate sex freak who will do anything to satisfy his partner:)))
  71. he Likes surprises, specially when you do surprises in bed:))
  72. He is loyal even when SINGLE.
  73. Maybe sometimes judgmental, but nothing will come out on his mouth if he doesn't really mean it.
  74. Accept any challenge you will give on him
  75. Have strong personality.
  76. can mingle any person.
  77. Very protective to his family.
  78. You will see him a snob person at first but if you know him very well. You will love him
  79. is talented in teasing and foreplay..WTF!
  80. knows that what he believes today will affect tomorrow
  81. When in a date, be honest and clear.
  82. He hates gossips.
  83. he had the ability to focus his attention to something he dream of.
  84. Always looking for perfection in terms of relationships, but when in a relationship he will do anything to work it out.
  85. he has a big heart, he dream not only for his family but also for others.
  86. When he talks about a certain problem to you, it means it had been resolved and he just only want to know your opinion
  87. He gets wild when in a videoke bar or in a dance floor
  88. he is very fun people to hangout
  89. he is sometimes a mellow dramatic person, and tend to share some serious part of his life
  90. He never tolerate any lies.
  91. Just be careful with his alter ego, he will lead you to the world you've never seen. (Sounds mysterious??..Lol)
  92. Sometimes he called himself insane because he do somethings not normal on his age and profession. Child like
  93. He only have sex with the people he love
  94. See opportunities in everything
  95. He have always an explanation to everything
  96. his mind is so dynamic.
  97. tend to over react or analyzed anything when he's in
  98. when you get fall in love with him you may say "i never expected that i will fall in love with a person that is so interesting" :-))
  99. You may see him as quiet and reserved outside, but he is actually waiting for you to to show you his fun side bottled up inside.
  100. He has three personalities, first come from soul, second comes from intelligence, and third from his alter ego..

These are some of the things you should know about Arch. Emman, but you must get in touch with him to know him better, just bring some wines, rum, beer and that’s it! No one will stop him talking….

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MY JOURNEY TO BECOME "AN ARCHITECT"

I am the eldest of the family, and i know from the start that i have my responsibilities for them, being "Kuya" isn't really easy, I always in charge for the guidance of my younger brothers and sister when my mom and my dad were not around, expectation really matters to them, they believe in you, they expect you to be a responsible kuya and they want me to be a role model not only to my brothers and sister but also to the other members of the family.

I am a mama's boy and nothing will change the truth that i am so close with my mom, she always teach me anything and everything about life, everything she knows, how to cook your own meal, how to repair your clothes when they get damage, how to clean your own room, how to wash dishes, how to be a disciplined and a responsible Kuya.

My mom is always there for me, until now i am still single, because i always prefer to find someone who's really like my mom, sweet, funny, responsible, anything about my mom is perfect. And it used to be my standard.

There is only one reason that i feel not really embarrassed but i feel different with the other kids in town about my mom, she had a skin diseases they called it "Psoriasis" in science it is a chronic immune-mediated disease which largely affect the quality of life. More often people having this are experiencing diminished quality of life. I know from the start that some of our neighbor makes gossip about her, about her looks and about her sickness. I always feel embarrassed about her and i envy those kids who have normal mom, free from any sickness, and had a normal life, but i always feels hatred and i feel angry to those people who always make some bad gossips about her, who always insulted her because of her sickness. I love my mom so much and i will do anything for her, and also to my family, i can take a bullet for them, just to see them happy and free from anything that would bother them.

Because of lack of educational background of my dad, when i'm in elementary and high school my mom always attends meeting and affairs in my school, my dad didn't graduated in elementary he only reach grade 3, but my mom holds a degree, she's a registered midwife, so in order for us to not encounter any problems regarding all the issues in the meetings, my mom prefer to attend in everything.

We live in a simple life, my father is a farmer, we have a small farm in our province, my mom is a housewife, because of her disease, she couldn't apply into a private hospital even in public health center, they need physically fit and clean health record employee. I hate all those people who treated my mom like that, i always telling my self that one day those people who insulted my mom will kneel down to us and begging for mercy. But that's when i'm young and not fully grown up man.

When i'm in college, problems in our family gets doubled, because of the tuition fee rate and my allowances, i went to school with only a 100 pesos in my pocket, i used it for transportation and my lunch meal. We always begging for help to our neighbor, we always lend money, we always find someone who can help us in my everyday expenses. Sari-sari store in our neighbor, my cousins, my relatives, and even my teacher in high school, all of these people help me to be who i am now. They let my mom to lend money from them.

Unfortunately, when i'm in third year college, i think because of too much pressure and problems that my father handle and because of the background of his work (as a farmer), he got a lung disease, i don't know the exact name of that sickness but all i know that time his health was really bad, we don't know what to do that time, form the start of the class we have nothing to support in my college study then my father get sick.

One thing that my mom and my dad thought is that to sell our farm in order to support his medicine which is needed to maintain for at least a year and to support my studying in college. All that we have is gone, our farm, all of our assets. With these happenings in our life, it urge or it push me to work in a fast food chain in order to support myself in my study. My school hours is from 7am to 5pm, and i work in that store from 5pm to 12mn. At first it's really hard for me to do all those things/routine, school and work! Im an architecture student that time so there always a time that i need to be awake in the evening and finished all of my obligation as an arki student, doing some plates, some plans which is probably a part of being an arki student. Adjustment is really hard for me that time, but eventually after a week of continues hardwork, my body and my mind gets into it.

I graduated in college because of hardwork and perseverance of my mom and my dad, one thing bear in my mind that time is to find a job that will help them. An architecture degree holder is not as cheap as other college degrees, after studying 5 years in college we need to have at least a two years of experience before we took up board examination. We need at least a years of experience on the related field to be applied in a large and competitive company. So maybe this will be set as your clue that it's also hard to find a job having this one. Luckily, maybe because of my love and faith in God, i got a job which im not applying for, my cousin refer me to this company and on the day that i applied, i got hired! Thanks for this unexpected blessing, which God has given me, until now i am working on this company here in CEBU, and my heart still here in this company, they treated you right, my boss treated me as his son, he supported me for what i wanted to be, he supported me from my Architecture licensure exam, then i got passed and also with my Master Plumber Board examination, and i also passed. It's really amazing for someone that we should believe in ourself, set our goals, and have faith in God, and i know that everything will be alright.

These are some part of my life, i couldn't tell everything in just a single story, all i know is that i'm happy and fulfilled where and who i am now, I am now a registered Architect and a registered master plumber, i know that the time will come that i can used these licenses in my dreams to fulfill.

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Tuesday, September 6, 2011

APO Hiking Society│Wala Nang Hahanapin Pa

Ewan ko ba ngunit kahit ganyan siya, Minamahal ko siya, wala nang hahanapin pa. Kahit ano’ng sabihin ng iba, minamahal ko siya, Wala nang hahanapin pa.

Namiss ko ung taong nagparinig sa akin ng kantang ito:'(


Monday, September 5, 2011

Child For SALE!

Isang biyayang maituturing ang pagkakaroon ng isang anak, anak na bunga ng pagmamahalan, batang magbibigay sigla at pag-asa sa pamilyang naghihikahos sa buhay, subalit paano na lamang kung ang batang ito ay literal na tutulong sa pinansyal na bagay ng pamilyang walang makain sa hapag kainan at lugmok sa kahirapan, batang ibebenta kapalit ng pera na pansamantalang papawi sa kumukulong tiyan ng pamilya.

Isang balitang di ko halos maisip, na di ko masikmura dahil sa bentahan ng bata dito sa lugar na halos itinuring ko nang pangalawang tahanan. Sex, droga, sugalan, krimen at prostitusyon ilan sa mga bagay na normal na natin naririnig, nababalitaan at nakikita sa ating lipunan, subalit isang balita ang malamang nagpabago sa aking pananaw ng isang payak na lipunan na aking ginagalawan, ang bentahan ng isang musmos na sanggol, ang batang walang alam, batang kasisilang lamang, at batang biyaya ng Poong Maykapal ay isa na rin palang bagay na maaaring maihalintulad sa mga isda na ibinebenta sa palengke o mga hayop na na pinagbibili sa mga petshop.

Kahirapan ang isa sa mga dahilan kung bakit ang bawat isa sa atin ay nakagagawa ng mga bagay na maaring bumabago sa ating buhay at nagbibigay ng malaking epekto sa ating lipunan. KAhirapan na siyang nagtutulak sa iba na ibenta ang sariling katawan para sa panandaliang aliw na tutugon sa kumakalam na sikmura ng pamilya, kahirapan na siyang nagbibigay ng motibo sa iba upang pumatay, magnakaw, at manloko ng kapwa. Subalit di naman siguro sagot ang ibenta ang batang galing sa sariling sinapupunan, na iyong iningatan sa loon ng siyam na buwan para lang matugunan ang kahirapan na iyong nararanasan.

Pagkatapos ng sarap ayaw dumanas ng hirap. Isang malaking responsibilidad ang pagkakaroon ng isang sanggol, isang bata na siyang bubuo sa pamilya, na siyang magbibigay ng malaking pag-asa. Ang ibinigay ng Diyos marahil ay dapat ingatan, alagaan, mahalin at gabayan hanggang ang sapat na isip at kaalaman sa kanyang pagkatao ay makamtan.

Marahil marami tayong mga katanungan na nabubuo sa ating kaisipan, mga katanungan sa sarili, sa mga bagay bagay, sa mga kaganapan o pangyayari, sa kalikasan o kung saan pa man. Anu man ito ang mga kasagutan dito marahil ay sa bawat isa na lamang nakasalalay, ang bawat isa na lamang ang makahahanap ng sariling kasagutan, subalit dapat isaisip at isabuhay ng bawat isa na ang bawat galaw na ating ginagawa dito sa lupa ay nakikita ng Diyos sa itaas. Anumang iyong ginawa dito sa lupa ay siya ring gagawin sa iyo sa oras ng iyong kamatayan.

Isang sanggol na walang alam, isang bagong buhay, at isang bagong nilalang ng ating Poong Maykapal ay nakaranas agad ng isang makamundong bagay. Di man natin ninanais ang ganitong kaganapan ay di naman natin mapipigilan gawa ng buhay na naghihikahos sa hirap, Bata bata paano ka naging sagot sa kumakalam ng sikmura ng iyong pamilya?.